Frequently Asked Questions by Birth Parents:

Please remember that most of the negative stories which you have heard or read about adoption are sensationalized by the media and are not typical of the adoption process.

1. Is the adoption confidential?

Yes.  Your decision is personal and your identifying information will not be shared with the adoptive family, and will remain confidential unless you agree to share the information.

2. Who chooses the family that will adopt my child?

You can choose the family who you feel is best for your child.  We can assist with this process by showing you profiles of many loving, caring families who are looking to adopt.

3. How do I know that my child is going to a good home?

All adoptive couples are required to have a Home Study completed on their family.  A social worker will visit their home, complete a criminal background check, and get a health report from the couple's physician and contact references in order to be sure that they are fit to be parents.

4. Will it cost me anything?

As an expectant mother, help and services are provided to you, FREE of charge. 

5. Can I get financial assistance?

We can assist you with arranging for medical care, counseling, living expenses and legal representation.

6. Why do I need an attorney?

The court requires birth parents to be represented by an attorney to be sure that the birth parents understand their legal rights.

7. How involved is the birth father in the adoption plan?

We encourage the birth father to be involved, however often the birth fathers are not available or choose not to participate in the adoption plan.

8. What type of contact would I have with the adoptive parents?

Whether you have contact is up to you. In most cases you can meet or speak with the adoptive parents before you give birth. After the child is adopted, we can arrange for the adoptive parents to send photos and notes to you or, in some cases, arrange for additional contact.

9. Will my child be able to contact me when they become an adult?

When the child is 18 he/she will have access to the original birth certificate, which will have your name listed.  Birth parents who want to be reunited with their children should keep the court updated with current contact information.